My boyfriend cheats on me....in my dreams.
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, our relationship
like any has it's ups, it's downs and its all arounds. But in general I
have a happy and healthy relationship. I love the guy with all my heart,
and I feel as if I have found my soul mate.
However some mornings I wake up and I hate him. I am so mad at him,
and I end up eventually ruining the day. It's really a little crazy, how
I manage to ruin the day based on a dream; but I do. I am a selfish
wacko, nut cased freak, but I am not the only woman who has had this
happen to her.
Your sleeping away, la, dee, dah, dee, dah... and then out of nowhere
you find yourself throw into the oddest of situations. Your boyfriend is
telling you he has cheated on you...or perhaps you caught him slamming
his man hood into some other chicks taco? Perhaps you only caught him
making out, or perhaps you witnessed him proposing to another woman
right in front of you.
No matter how the dream goes, its always a bad one. It's you being
left behind, being betrayed, and it's a downright crappy ass feeling.
However when you wake up from the cheating nightmare you feel betrayed
still, even though he is right their laying beside you, you sort of
still hold a grudge...because of a dream. How odd to behave this way, but I do. Sometimes I will even pick a stupid fight because of it.
Then you have those dreams where it's you who is the cheater. In the
dream you know it's bad, and you know you have a boyfriend, yet you go
against everything you normally stood for as you let some dream guy have
his way with you. Pretty odd. But what's even more odd, is when you
wake up, and you still feel guilty. Wowie! Or am I the only one?
I doubt that, otherwise you're a flipping liar man. Everyone has had
nightmares like this before, yet I have always wondered why it is so
traumatic that it could seriously effect the rest of your day towards
your loved one.
I read up on the meaning behind dreams, but what the hell do they
know, no one even knows why we dream, yet they have explanations to
them. These explanations range from you feeling guilty and cheating
because perhaps you are going to one day walk out on them.
If you were the one being cheated on perhaps it is because you don't
trust the person, or maybe you don't feel attractive anymore. Or perhaps
I am sooo psychic that my subconscious mind is 'telling me something.'
I know that he would never cheat on me, nor would I cheat on him. Yet
there he is, in my dreams bumping and grinding with some blond bimbo.
Maybe I hate blonds? Yet I am a blond!? Yet thats not me? Hah!
It's enough to drive me insane, trying to figure out the answers, I do
know though that I should not allow these dreams to affect my actual
mood and behavior towards him, and that shouldn't feel guilty when I
happen to be making it with someone in my dreams. These types of dreams
are normal, and I am sure everyone has had dreams like this. There is
nothing weird about it.
Seeing how none of the explanations I found on the net fit the bill to
me and my relationship, I sort of had to make my own assumptions as to
why I had these dreams every now and then. I drew up a few conclusions
of my own, but honestly, whatever the reason is...cheating dreams suck.